Hello Anak,
I’ve just finished washing out the garage, and while am fixing some video file which takes a bit too slow to finish, I thought of writing to you again…
Yes, we are supposed to be together right now, but a promise is a promise, and you don’t break a promise to a kid. There you are, in your favorite computer shop where you meet with your friends and play some war online game. I really tried to delay you, I confess. The day is scorching hot, I can just imagine a non-airconditioned room with plenty of computers around, you must be very hot but you don’t mind. It is one of your favorite past times.
Anyways, you know I kind of disapprove you spending a lot of time in front of a computer. I am an IT practitioner; I know how tiring it can get to be seated affront a monitor with vivid, moving colors. Maybe that is why you’ve developed the fondness in computers, because I used to take you to my workplace when you were little. And for you to not get bored and eventually disturb me at work, I collect kiddie flicks and let you watch them, or I allow you to play online on some kiddie websites. Even then, I thought exposing you to computers may be beneficial as the education system now gets all high-tech and digital and online. I wanted you to be virtually comfortable and yet careful.
But now, I kind of think it is bad for your eyes, and bad for your imagination. The kinds of games you are playing, I do not like them. I do not like that you are out there sitting for a long time when you can run around and play with the neighborhood kids. Maybe that is the thing with parents, we are eager to teach our kids something we thought are good and cute and fun, but when the kids already got a grasp of it and got bored and try something more challenging, there we are, trying to isolate our kids away from the matter. I’ve read a nice article once that some parents are eager to teach their kids how to walk, and were so delighted when kids are able to walk some baby steps..but when the kid learns to run, the parents just wished they would stop, it makes the parents tired running after their kids. It is really kind of funny, and sort of sad..Because it is true.
Anak I really hope you don’t lose yourself into all of those. One of life’s greatest armor, and greatest defense, is self-control. For me it is not bad to have fun, clean fun. When it rains outside, I always encourage playing in the rain. I just want you to have a happy childhood,,,a fully happy childhood. I wanted to expose you to many things and learn as many lessons through experience. And that includes, self-control, even when things get extremely fun.
Mommy